Managing pain flares

Pain flares can occur in patients with neuroplastic pain for many reasons, often when multiple small stressors add up. Neuroplastic pain flares are not usually a sign of tissue damage. They represent a sensitive nervous system reacting to load.

Common Triggers:

Physical & Mechanical Triggers (Flares may occur 24–72 hours after the activity)

  • Doing more than usual (even if it felt fine at the time)
  • Prolonged static positions (sitting, standing, driving)
  • Repetitive or asymmetrical movements
  • Sudden increases in activity or exercise
  • Poor sleep posture or unfamiliar beds
  • Minor joint slips, overreaching, or micro-instability
  • Aggressive stretching or end-range loading
  • Falls, minor motor vehicle incidents

Nervous System & Stress Triggers (Stress and pain use the same alarm system)

  • Emotional stress (even “good” stress)
  • Feeling rushed, pressured, or unsafe
  • Conflict or unresolved worry
  • Hyper-focusing on symptoms
  • Fear of movement or re-injury
  • Lack of downtime or sensory overload

Fatigue & Recovery Triggers

  • Poor or fragmented sleep
  • Skipping meals
  • Dehydration or low electrolytes
  • Overworking without rest days
  • Travel, jet lag, or schedule disruption

Autonomic Triggers (Common in EDS / POTS)

  • Heat or humidity
  • Standing too long
  • Rapid position changes
  • Dehydration
  • Illness or fever

Sensory & Environmental Triggers (These increase sensory load, which can amplify pain)

  • Bright lights
  • Loud or constant noise
  • Crowded environments
  • Temperature extremes
  • Strong smells

Hormonal & Biological Triggers

  • Menstrual cycle changes
  • Illness or infection
  • Inflammation from allergies or MCAS
  • Blood sugar fluctuations

Cognitive & Emotional Triggers

  • Catastrophic thinking (“I’ve damaged something”)
  • Monitoring pain too closely
  • Comparing current ability to past ability
  • Feeling invalidated or not believed

Medical & Iatrogenic Triggers

  • Repeated imaging or alarming explanations
  • Invasive procedures without a clear indication
  • Over-reliance on passive treatments
  • Sudden medication changes

Important Patterns to Know

  • Triggers are often stacked, not single events
  • A flare does not require a big cause
  • Triggers are not failures – they are information
  • Predictability improves with tracking, not avoidance

What to do when a flare occurs:

REMEMBER:

  • A flare is not tissue damage
  • A flare is a temporary nervous system amplification
  • The goal is calming + safe movement, not stopping all activity
  • Panic and avoidance make flares last longer

A mantra: “My body is sensitive right now, not broken.”

STEP 1 – PAUSE & RESET

Goal: Turn down nervous system threat signals

Do: ONE or TWO of the following:

  • Slow breathing
    • Inhale 4 seconds → exhale 6–8 seconds (5–10 rounds)
  • Grounding
    • Name 5 things you see, 3 things you feel, 1 thing you hear
  • Warmth
    • Heat pack or warm shower
  • Safety cues
    • Quiet room, dim lights, comfortable position

Avoid:

  • Scanning your body for damage
  • Googling symptoms
  • Replaying worst-case thoughts

STEP 2 – REFRAME THE PAIN

Say (out loud if possible):

  • “This pain is real, but it does not mean harm.”
  • “I have had flares before, and they passed.”
  • “I do not need to fix this right now.”

Helpful mental shift mantra: “My nervous system is loud, not injured.”

STEP 3 – MODIFY ACTIVITY (Not Stop It)

Do NOT fully rest unless medically required.

Choose the lowest safe level of movement:

  • Gentle walking
  • Supported range of motion
  • Isometric holds (5–10 seconds)
  • Position changes every 20–30 minutes

Rules:

  • Stay in mid-range (avoid end-range stretching)
  • Move slowly and deliberately
  • Stop before symptoms spike
  • Stillness increases sensitivity. Gentle movement reduces it.

STEP 4 – PAIN-FRIENDLY SUPPORTS

Optional tools (use sparingly):

  • Braces or compression (temporary only)
  • Topical lidocaine or heat
  • Prescribed flare medications (as directed)

Avoid:

  • Repeated “emergency” treatments
  • Escalating medications without guidance
  • New interventions during a flare

STEP 5 – NOURISH & STABILIZE

Pain flares worsen with depletion.

Check:

  • Fluids + electrolytes
  • Protein intake
  • Regular meals
  • Sleep opportunity (even rest without sleep helps)

STEP 6 – CALM THE THREAT LOOP

If your thoughts are racing, try:

  • Box breathing (inhaling for four seconds, holding the breath for four seconds, exhaling for four seconds, and holding the exhaled state for four seconds.)
  • Body scan with neutral language
  • Gentle distraction (music, audiobooks, nature sounds)

Do NOT:

  • Argue with the pain
  • Try to “push through”
  • Judge yourself for flaring

STEP 7 – RETURN TO BASELINE PLAN

As symptoms settle:

  • Resume your normal movement routine
  • Reduce brace use
  • Return to planned activity pacing
  • Expect some soreness — this is safe

The goal is gradual re-entry, not waiting for zero pain.

WHEN TO SEEK MEDICAL HELP:

Contact your care team if:

  • New neurological symptoms appear
  • Pain follows a clear injury
  • There is redness, fever, or swelling
  • Pain behaves differently from past flares

REMINDERS FOR MY FUTURE SELF

  • Flares are temporary
  • I am not damaging myself
  • My nervous system can relearn safety
  • Progress is measured in function, not perfection